well, I know that the first thing any one would do is to defend one self.
I some how feel that I am surrounded by people who are all the time bothered only about other's mistakes. They may not criticize me, but what scares me is their attitude towards their fellow human beings. There are some people who never bother to think that unneccesary criticism will spoil their relation ships with the people around them.
Yeah, we all will love to hear what others think about us. That's what I learnt on the other day, when I made my students give feed back about their friends. They were really eager to know what others think about them.
But there will be some people around us, who try to talk 100 & one things about us, even if we don't ask them to do so.
The best thing would be to ignore these people. If we go on thinking about them & try to take revenge , ultimately we will lose peace of mind. when you see such a person, just think that there's no one there & you are unable to see that person. Some times you feel like kicking the other person's ass.
DO IT.
But not really. Go to your room. Imagine the person there. Kick him/her.
But there are others, who really want you to succeed in life. When they criticize, it's time to stop supporting your view point & start thinking about what they said.
CRITICISM will help us or ruin us, based upon the way we take it.
3 comments:
thats a good post... good to way express yourself...
this one is good. :-)
i thnk this the practical way of taking the criticism. if i go to classes n going to learn this it self then u have wrote an expensive article delt with fragility and sensibility. i loved this one.
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